be unlikely

an inspirational entry from a girl not chosen

It was my senior year of high school. The grass had turned a little greener, birds were chirping louder, and department stores had begun to line their racks with beautiful, sparkly, shiny formal gowns. Spring meant just one thing to a senior girl: prom.

I made my way to school that morning, late, as usual and shot across the parking lot to make it in time to my homeroom class. I took my seat and began to work on the previous night’s history assignment. The bell dinged and the ever – redundant morning announcements began to blast over the loud speaker.

I didn’t pay much attention until I heard the words, “and today in every homeroom class you will need to nominate this year’s prom king and queen.”

Suddenly my stomach was in complete knots. I mean — I knew never to get my hopes up for such a thing. After all, I was the athletic girl who was at church every time the doors were open, not the socialite this honor required. But I still couldn’t shake that horrible feeling within my body as sheets of paper were passed around the room on which to write down our nominations.

Our very awkward and insensitive teacher took his place, front and center of the classroom. As he collected the papers, he began to call out the names written on them. For a brief moment, I felt like I was at the end of a very intense Survivor episode.

Would my name be written on any of those pieces of paper? I wondered.

Thirty seconds before the bell rang our homeroom had nominated that year’s prom king and queen. And once again, I was not it. I quickly made my way to the one and only place a girl can get any ounce of privacy in a large high school — the bathroom stall.

I shut the gray rusted door and pulled off my sweatshirt and wept and wept. It wasn’t me…again. Never again would there be an opportunity to become a prom queen. While I knew not to expect it, something inside of me still wanted to have it.

But from that moment on I became something else — an unlikely prom queen of a different kind. It has to do with being chosen for a more important role in my life.

Recently God’s been showing me that being an unlikely girl isn’t such a bad thing. In fact, all throughout the Bible there are great heroes of faith that were indeed themselves the unlikely candidates. Moses couldn’t talk right. David was an adulteress. The Samaritan woman was nothing more than a sinner girl. And even Jesus’ very own disciples appeared to be scrubs in their community.

Yet God seemed to have hand picked and set apart these unlikely people.

Is there something that lies in your past that you feel is too far a stretch for God to use? Do you posses a quality that the world would look at and say, “Nope, not her?” Have you ever felt completely unqualified to be used by the hand of God?

If so, then perhaps you should get ready: because God qualifies the unqualified and he deems the unlikely, likely. Never think your inadequacies are too much for Him. Be unlikely to this world for the most likely God.

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Nicki is a girl who loves a day at the pool, friends that make her laugh until her belly hurts and loves living an unlikely life. You can find her blog at Three Girly Girls.

Are you living an unlikely life? Check in with Nicki this week.

{ 12 comments… read them below or add one }

Karen Hammons June 21, 2010 at 8:40 am

Oh the high school memories that flooded back. LOL I LOVED the line “Be unlikely to this world for the most likely God.” Oh if only I heard that back in the day! But God didn’t want me to. He is having me hear it now and it is such a blessing. His timing is perfect. Thanks for a great post!

Karen

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Sherri Herron June 21, 2010 at 9:03 am

THANK YOU for the last paragraph of your blog today…I so needed that…today, and every day! I suffer from HUGE insecurity issues, so I have added that to my “Scriptures, Thoughts, and Prayers” book, along with typing it up to keep where it can be easily seen at work and at home!
Wishing you a very blessed Monday!
Sherri

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nicole June 21, 2010 at 9:53 am

thank you for this reminder.

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Nicki June 21, 2010 at 9:54 am

Karen, as I was writing this it was hard b/c all those memories came back. But I think like you said, sometimes we just need to hear it later on! So glad you stopped by today! :)

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Nicki June 21, 2010 at 9:55 am

Sherri, thanks so much for sharing today. I love your idea about your Sciptures, thoughts and prayers book…love that title rather than just….”journal”. :)

Praying you have a blessed week!

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Meg June 21, 2010 at 11:02 am

“Never think your inadequacies are too much for Him.”

Thank you for this reminder today. So often I feel like I fall short, forgetting that God created me this way so that I would need Him.

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Bethany June 21, 2010 at 11:35 am

Thank you so much for that!! This is me. I’ve always been the girl next door, nothing special, just me. I’m insecure and if that isn’t bad enough, I’ve really become the unlikely girl over the last year with my separation and soon (I’m sure) disillusionment to my husband. As if my insecurities weren’t bad enough, he betrayed me.
But even through all this, God has been teaching me about the real importances and and showing me I’m not alone in all this. And you have reminded me today, that even the unlikely become those very likely and loved and used people. God is calling me, I’m just not sure what the journey is yet.
Thank you!!!! I hope you have a wonderful day!!! Have an unlikely day!!!! ;)
With Love,
Bethany

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Bindu June 21, 2010 at 7:23 pm

Thank you for this reminder, like a few others have said. Have been feeling really inadequate as of late in the place where God has placed me.

Have a great week
Bindu

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Rose June 21, 2010 at 8:42 pm

Thank you, Nikki, for your encouragement to me today! I needed to hear this (and have heard this from another source, too, so I know God is certainly speaking to me). I am actually doing a study over at http://beingagirlbooks.com/blog/ in which this very same theme is being discussed…too cool. Thanks again,
Rachelle

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Rachel June 21, 2010 at 9:30 pm

This made me teary. I can tell it came from a beautiful place within you; your heart. Thank you for sharing because it is SO true. When we are a child of the Kings we are qualified!

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Lydia June 22, 2010 at 11:25 pm

Wow! What a great post! I have always been the unlikely one: overweight, nerdy, and socially awkward. I’m starting to see God’s calling in my life and that makes me feel like the unlikely can be made likely through God’s power.

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Karla Taylor June 27, 2010 at 12:41 am

Nicki,

I find myself in a similar situation. To make the story short I have always consider myself a Christian, but over the past few years I made a conscious decision to turn my entire life truly to God, to become a wife as close to the one on Proverbs 31. The thing is that when God decides to move us nothing in our life remains the same, in short He has moved me to far greater things I had imagined. Although at times I feel inadequate and definately unqualified, He has showed me I can be stretched beyond myself to serve His purpose as a Christian, wife, mother adn friend.

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